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Anna Schott's avatar

I just read this over the phone to my dad. I had to speak very loudly every time your dad spoke and now I need some water.

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Sallyfemina's avatar

I've been reading them over the phone to my brother, but since this one now has audio of Tom doing it, my voice was saved.

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Ambermoggie's avatar

Love your dad and that cheered a crap morning. Thanks Tom.

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Ruth Allen, PhD (MNCPS Accred)'s avatar

The fish outline though 🤣🥹

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Jill Shepherd's avatar

Love this story so much, as a fellow toady. Only just discovered you late last night, too late, but listened to the whole thing anyway about abandoned houses and aging. You crack me up real good with your allsorts jumble of tactile and ephemeral. I shall read/listen on with reckless abandon. Thank you

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Lily Langman's avatar

Thats the only way to read 😉

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Joanne G's avatar

Wonderful ! Both the writing (have always laughed when your Dad speaks) and the Emu sketch is a masterpiece. Thank you.💚

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Tom Cox's avatar

Thanks Joanne!

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Jack S's avatar

In a previous home, I would find toads and frogs in my basement window wells. I would get a bucket, put it in the window well, reach down into the well, fetch all the roads and frogs, and put them in the bucket. I would take them out to the garden or the wood pile or the compost bins and let them go. Somehow they would always find their way back to the window well. Once I got 20+ out, of all sizes.

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Sallyfemina's avatar

We had that in one house. Not only many frogs, but one very confused muskrat. My dad had to put clear covers over all the window wells.

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Grace's avatar

I am fighting the urge to read this piece to my own dad, who’s long gone, and the dad beside me, and anyone who needs cheering up today. I may not win this fight. Thank you. Brilliant, kooky and so uplifting.

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Cheryl Yvonne's avatar

Thank you for posting this. I needed a good laugh today and this just had me in tears. Now off to find more videos of Rod Hull and Emu….

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make me concede's avatar

You are some peering up here some sharing up for you

C hear ring up hi Im staying

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make me concede's avatar

You are some peering up here some sharing up for you

C hear ring up hi Im staying

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Fotini Masika's avatar

ALWAYS A DELIGHT TO READ (AND EVEN HEAR) ABOUT YOUR DAD!

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Kevin Maher's avatar

😂IT BLOOMIN’ WELL IS!

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Isabelle Drury's avatar

this made me feel all sorts of emotions and im not sure why

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Stacy Merrick's avatar

Hearing you give voice to your LOUD dad is how I've imagined him while reading your pieces yet a thousand times better! This has brightened my morning (it's still morning here in Wisconsin). And the photo you included of Ralph and The Bear --- oh my heart. Thanks for another wonderful piece!

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Berkana's avatar

I had read this before

but now listening to it

was like I was in England hugging my old friend Paul

I also remembered a time when his parents

were visiting and how much I could see the shocking difference between our cultures

You here, when you bring father's voice, bring me exactly that feeling

an immense cultural difference in the manifestation of love

As Paul said me once , in my culture we touch each others life deeply , in a different way

Yes you took me there , I love England

Thank you

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Tom Cox's avatar

Aw, thank you so much. This means a lot.

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Helen Barrell's avatar

More brilliance from your dad!

I'm so sorry you lost your cat, but this made me roar with laughter:

“IS THAT WHERE YOUR CAT IS BURIED?” my dad asked, pointing to a seven foot by four foot area of soil I’d recently dug out.

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Julia Wright's avatar

The frog in the final photo is definitely asserting his ownership of this pond, judging by the way he is reclining with his hind legs possessively spreadeagled.

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Sallyfemina's avatar

Frogspreading.

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Faye's avatar

Thank you !!! I enjoyed reading your post very much. Your mom and dad sound amazing !!

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Tom Cox's avatar

Thanks Faye!

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Gail's avatar

Ah, James Herriot lives on. 'He's womitin, sor! Womitin' sumfin awful.' I hope you might appreciate how hard I had to work fighting the spell check hootnanny on this dang phone. Sent with love. Fabulous story, that.💙

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Mark Everest's avatar

Very entertaining anecdote Tom. If nothing else - who doesn’t love a toad?! I remember the Rod H television aerial story well. I had a mental image of him actually on the roof with Emu, having a fight over the positioning of the aerial and that being the reason for the fatal fall. It still seems to me to be a fitting way for him to have gone. Cheers, M

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